Guys, a performance suspension is not supposed to feel like stock. The coilovers have heavier springs and heavier damping, so they are going to feel stiffer. You guys who think it is bouncy on the soft setting should try going firmer; that should control the springs from bouncing back as much. MoparSRT4: If you think the stock suspension is too stiff then you are probably out of luck. You must have been driving a Lincoln Continental before though, as most people would say that the SRT-4 stock suspension is way soft. I'm used to driving on heavy springs and dampers though so who knows.
Oh and to answer the original post: Why don't you just try out a few settings and go with what you like most? Start at either the soft or firm end and just keep adjusting it until it feels nice. If you want to try different front and back settings go to a safe place and whip around a turn, then firm the back up a little and do it again, see if it feels better or worse, try the same with the front, etc. Someone else might give you an idea for your settings but they could have a different driving style or different idea of what feels right..