Well My friend use to work at the Dodge dealership, so the Service Manger is his good friend I brought it in there, and since it was ONLY grinding into gear in 3rd gear he said it wouldn't be the clutch because that would do it in 1st too along with it disengaging would do it in 1st as well.
He figured out it was the Transmission what specifcally i Don't know yet.
but, he said if only 3rd gear grinds in any SRT-4 its usually because of
''amature'' shifting, not putting the clutch in enough when shifting.
so if you wanna safe yourself some Cash push that damn clutch in.
it pays to have the hook ups Employee pricing for me and a new Transmission for only 500$
I'll find out more from him they are smart there.