alright so i bought these hids off of a member on here and he told me that they were on his car and they are just plug and play. He also told me they had a built in relay so is there anyway i can check that? or do i have to just take his word for it? im sorry i feel like a real dumbass because it took everyone else 30 minutes to install their hids but i was at it all day today and still couldnt do it. im just confused because he said it was just plug and play but it wasnt for me..........like everything with what he sent plugged in and was set up good but when i went to hook it up to the car it didnt seem like the harness from the car was made for this. ill post some pics and explain myself thoroughly, please tell me if you see anything odd with these. i did take off the bumper and alot of stuff so it would be easy access and i would have alot of room to work with but i was so pissed after it didnt work out and i had to put all the stuff back on lol it was a real pita. allright so the first pic is just everything he sent me ( but there was 2 of everything i just took a picture of 1 set lol)

the next pic is a pic of the ballast

the next pic is a pic of the plug on the ballast. from what i see on the harness in the car it doesnt have 2 little pins its got 3, and the lights that are on it are silverstars. could it be that the previous owner cut it up and put on the harness for the silverstars that doesnt fit the hids?? cause thats the only thing that i can think of right now.

next is just a pic of some of the wires and the socket coming from the light bulb. also say my car had the correct plug that went into the ballast then where would this plug go thats coming out of the light??

and last here is a close pic of whats coming from the lights, are these the grounds?? if so they are really short i have no idea how im guna get that too my battery
i appologize for the long post, but if someone could just help me out and let me know what they think and what it is that i have to do. im really dumb when it comes to electrical and wiring stuff especaily in cars
thanks in advance