Aw you're no fun.
The solution: Make your own relay harness.
You don't want to run your kit off the stock wiring/MFS. Search "Fire in dash" and you'll see what I mean. Search any of these related wiring threads in this lighting section and probably 80% of them are mentioned by me to tell people to use a relay and wired correctly. Typically most of these issues people experience is from not using a relay or not having it wired correctly (which includes using a relay).
I have explained as well as others on here how to make your own harness. you can also check out
HiDPlanet.com :: Index and see the University section for a very detailed and professional way to make your own.