Alright here is the situation. My girlfriend has an ex that is in prison, he's been there for about a month or so and he has like 5 left or something like that. Well she was with him before she was with me, so he was her last.
But the problem is this...she talks to him everyday on the phone, and he keeps on calling until she picks up. If were out or something, she tells me we have to be home at a certain time so she can get to his call. She writes him letters constantly, like more then i can even think of. She is always talking about him, like everytime we do something she tells me a story relating to him about what were doing.
And also, just yesterday, i found some pictures that she had folded up to put in an envelope for him. Luckily our cat knocked them off the desk or I would have never known. The pictures were of her and him when they were together, and even one of her half naked. And it's not like it was just one or two, there were a good dozen of them
She tells me she doesn't want him, and the thing is i'm a Department of Defense Contractor so i'm leaving at the end of this month for over seas for 3 months. I don't know what to think about all this, and i don't know what to do...
Anybody got any ideas on what the hell i should do!!!!
If she is doing the stuff she is doing while you are there, what do you think she is going to do when you are gone? I say cut your losses and find another gf when you get back from overseas. It's just going to fuck with your mind if you go there and don't break up with her.
Sounds to me like shes just using you as a temporary fix...I hate to say it, but she needed to find somebody to live with till he gets out.....My advice, get out of it now before he gets out and some serious shit happens........
Like ^ said...this one is a no brainer. I only have one question. Was she still seeing him up until he went to jail? If so, I would say you are a temp fix for sure. I could understand an occasional letter or call, but everyday and you have to get home to take calls. Sounds like she is in love, with him.
yea, nudes first. get her drunk and fuck her in the butt. then leave her a note.
talk about getting owned.
while your fuking her in the ass fron behind take a picture of it, and just post it up all around your town, internet, send some to him ya know the usual.
Yeah, i agree with everyone that has said something back...shit just sucks though. It would be a lot easier for me if me and her didn't have a history. We've been talking for the longest time, we just never had the time to be together, and now that we finally are i don't want to just give up. but i'll see what the hell happens
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